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writes:I don't know wether to stay with my boyfriend. Sometimes i think i want to be with him forever and then sometimes when im not in a good mood i feel like i dont want to be with him. Also its hard juggling mates and boyfriends. I just dont know what to do should i stay with him or not? please help! ASAP Reply to this Question
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reader, Benny 1494 +, writes (15 October 2008):
 I've got a friend who was in the exact same situation she's got this boyfriend who is her whole world, at first it was great she was happy and bubbly but its been 3 months now and we never see her any more, she chose her boyfrien over her friends and we never see her except in class and she's a different person now. If you really love your boyfriend then talk to him about it tell him you're worried about juggling him and your mates, maybe you could go and hang out together with your friends. I'd tell your boyfriend that you don't want to spend time with him sometimes, he should understand that you need your own life and need a bit of space. Personally I'd be really honest with him tell him everything and explain how your feelings, you dont want to loose both your boyfriend and your friends. Hope I helped, feel free to PM meGood luck xxx
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (9 October 2008):
 You are too young to be stressing over this. If you can't be nice to him all the time chances are you don't really want this close personal relationship. Being a good friend is always a good start. You might be a bit too young to understand all that comes with a real b/f and g/f connection and chances are you just aren't ready. This isn't really a bad thing, it just simply means that it isn't time for you to move forward in this type of realtionship. We all mature at our own pace.
You have plenty of time to pick up where you left off if you decide that you want to give it another shot. Providing the guy is ok with this. If he really likes you now chances are it will all work itself out. Focus on your life. Study hard and get a good education. Mingle with friends and family, enjoying life and just having fun!
Remember that to go or stay ,the choice is untimately yours. Take your time in deciding and when you make the choice be sure that it's one you can live with.
*When you form a cirlce of friends, you never know who just might wind up holding your hand!*
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): your only young yet you shouldnt be thinking about a permanant ralationship well not worrying about one any how, spend time with your freinds have fun dont settle down to soon especially why your feeling this way, im not saying dump him but just explain you have freinds that you hang around with and that when you feel misserble you just dont want him near you, some people do feel that way when their misserble. see where it goes from there.
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reader, iwant2help +, writes (8 October 2008):
Hello!It would help knowing how long you have been going out with your boyfriend... although, as you are aged between 13-15 I would presume it is not a long term relationship. You are only young and boyfriends unfortunately, do come and go, and as much of a cliche as it is, friends will always be there. Because you also sometimes do not like your boyfriend, shows that you can not truly be in love with him, especially as you are fairly young, because you would love someone regardless if you did really love them. Have some time to think about it, go for a day out with your boyfriend and then your friends, maybe have a day out with them both at the same time, whatever you feel happiest doing, stick with it; but do not neglect your friends. Don't stress about it, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you!! Good luck!!
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