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reader, jay3532  +, writes (23 December 2011):
over reacting, jsut txt, dont call, txt him saying hope ur fine and that u miss him, end of story, just be patient and things will unfold as planned :)
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reader, In.love.with.him +, writes (22 December 2011):
 You are over reacting. Since everything was fine before he wasn't going trough any home issues, job issues, out of town issues. It could be anything I haven't heard from my BF who is LD in 3 days I am worried cause a bunch of unreasonable things were going on at home. If you've never met the guy then calm down if you've met him and known him for years then maybe your acting reasonable. If you both are having a bad relationship since you say "this was his last chance" then you both have underlying issues which weren't resolved.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 December 2011):
 yep I figured there was backstory we were not getting.
I wish you well and hope you get what you need and want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell guys......3 days and still not answering the phone......so Ive ended it.....not just cos of that itself but lets say it was the tip of the iceberg and he was on his last chance with me anyway. Now just got to figure out how Im gonna be strong and NOT take him back again......
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 December 2011):
so? what was it? I'm curious.... yeah sometimes in an LDR you can't get a hold of your partner....
has something happened to make you feel so nervous?
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (16 December 2011):
You're overreacting. Like you said, you talked to him last night and everything was fine. Do you have your phone on you every minute of the day? Don't you do other things during your day where you can't be at your phone? Or maybe you're just not in the mood to talk sometimes? (Everyone has times when they just don't feel like talking, not because they don't care about the person, but because they think there would be a better time for it).
Just send him a message that says to give you a call whenever he gets a chance and wait patiently.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2011): yes you're way over reacting. you need to get a grip, this isn't healthy
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2011): He's too busy having lots of sex with lots of different people to answer his phone. Hehe only joking, yeah you're overreacting just send him a text, saying you rang and you're thinking of him and talk to him soon. Then just get on with your life until he contacts you. He'll let you know then how his day went.
Don't make a big deal out this. There could be any number of reasonable, innocent explanations for this.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (15 December 2011):
 He has no credit to call or text you this is why he has been unable to call you back.
He may have also been busy when you phoned him.
I've been in a LDR too so these things can happen.
Give him a chance to top up his phone.
Try phoning him when you can to see if you can get through and don't worry I am sure you will hear from him soon!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2011): It might just been he been busy when u have rang and has missed your call :) I'm in a ldr with my boyfreind too and once he had treid to contact me and I'd left my ohone at home anther time my bf was busy working and couldn't reply to me xxx don't worry xxxx
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