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writes:Okay, so me and my ex split up in august 2010 and we was together for 16 months. We split up as I found out he cheated on me.I'm always hanging out with my girl friends to try and take my mind off him, and everything that happened but it doesnt work. I try to thing of all the bad things that happened and the reason we split, and that doesnt happen because all the good things that i miss come back also.I really need to get over him and move on because its stopping me from trying to find someone else, i hate feeling like this. I need to move on, i just cant. Any help would be much appreicated.
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reader, Shamandalie  +, writes (26 April 2011):
Oh dear, you must be in a lot of suffering right now. I went through something like that a few years ago and I know how hard it can get. Focusing on the things that made you leave him surely helps, but I know how the good things seem to take precedence in your mind.Why not doing something new? Something you would have never been able to do when you were with him? When my ex and I broke up I started going to a lot of metal concerts (huge metalhead here) and when I was with him we only went to the ones he liked. And we never would go to a metal bar for he would feel uncomfortable there while I feel like a fish in the water (I was old enough to go into a bar - you're not, I'm just putting this as an example). I made a whole lot of new friends that way and had a lot of fun and guess what? I met this guy who now is my boyfriend. So you could try to find something that you always wanted to do: art classes, some sport, music, charity or community work, etc. There's a lot to do out there.Also, if things are getting way out of hand you can always see a counselor.Best of luck :)
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