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anonymous
writes: hey im 22 and i've liked a guy that i went to school with when i was 10. When we were both 12, he moved away and i never saw him again.I was heartbroken when he left. Since then i've had 2 failed relationships, always in between i've had thoughts about this boy from school.Well since i never spoke to him while he was there, i had no way of contacting him. Recently about 2 years ago i saw him again on Friendster,when he added me as his friend.This caused the old feelings to arise stronger than ever.I've never sent him a message and neither has he. Im just too scared to make a move, coz he might think im crazy. Its been 10 years since we saw each other but i still think about him all the time...i want to know is this love that im feeling or just a massive crush?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): I think you should email him and take things slowly. Get to know him, he might not be how you remember him. People don't just change in looks but in character too. He could be the worst idea of a man or the best. But you won't know until you try. Test the water, send an email today.
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reader, pica +, writes (7 December 2006):
Well, it's wishful thinking. You don't know each other - people change rather a lot in 10 years especially as you were just kids back then. Don't build it into anything in your head because it is just a fantasy at this point, not love. You're not even in touch. Why not email him? If anything will move on the 12 year old in you that hankers after him.
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