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He keeps asking me to be his girlfriend; I don't really want a bf but I don't want to lose him!

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Question - (7 December 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2006)
A female , *owell writes:

hiya i am 13 and i like this boy in my school i no he loves me back he keeps askin me if we should go out as in boyfriend n girlfriend hes propa sweet and kind but i dont no if i feel like i want a boyfriend right now but i think if i dont say yes he will go of me and like somone else i have done stuff wid im but we not got has far as sex yet but i want to i love him 2 bits iv nown him for 3 years but we have jst got closer he stays at mine and i stay at his and im like always with him or on the fone to him but should i go out with him ??

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A female reader, kellyO United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2006):

kellyO agony auntHi Howell,

Sweety,it is really up to you and what u want. But what i would advise is if u really like him and dont want him out of your life now then perhaps u can go about with him. Going out with a guy at your age doesnt imply that it has to be a sexual relationship.I agree with you not wanting sex or having it yet, u are very smart.If u know he will want to have sex i wouldnt advise u to go into it. Have a relationship for now based on intense friendship and being together. Explain to him that this is what u want. You can do a whole lot of other fun stuff together.

Goodluck dear.

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