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It's all about ME

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Article - (16 September 2011) 3 Comments - (Newest, 22 September 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, KittieS writes:

So, I'm guessing articles should be a bit like a colum in a newspaper so here goes.

I'm having a ME day soon, this involves no boyfriends, no girlfriends, no family, no work

Just ME

now I'm thinking everyone should have one of these once in a while, a day where we spend a whole very selfish day thinking about nothing but ourselves (and in my case my cat, there's one man I can't exclude he's too pretty and handsome and actually a fabulous listener!)

So, my thoughts are do other people find the need for a me day? Do your partners understand it that maybe for one day (in our wonderful world of technology) that you won't text, you won't email, you won't call...

My ME day involves me using a days holiday, my man leaving for work and I guess it's not a whole day as he will come back later in the evening say around 9pm but this is a ME day.

My ME day has no plans, it's just what ever I feel on the day, this could be staying in bed until noon with my cat, eating a pizza for breakfast, watching a stupid chick flick or pampering myself rotten!

Thought people, does it make for a better more stronger relationship to be a little selfish sometimes? Do we need that little bit of space, to centre ourselves so that we can be better more loving people?

I think we do, and I'm looking forward to my special ME day and makes me want to see my boyfriend even more this weekend as I know he will respect my ME day.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2011):

I've been having a ME day every year on the same day since 2007. September 20 is my birthday and it's my ME day.

It's the one day that no one wants to challenge your given wishes on.

On this day, I refuse to put the fake smile on my irritated face for all the fat nasty aunts who come by to eat birthday cake, watch me win $2 on one of the many gifted lotto tickets and to collect worth while gossip so that they can continue spreading misery about.

FUCK THAT. I LOVE MY ME DAY. OWN IT!

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A female reader, KittieS United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2011):

KittieS is verified as being by the original poster of the question

KittieS agony auntThat's good to hear Fate - I have a ton of chores to do, but I can see my Saturday turning into a ME day already....

But a little voice is saying - get that butt in that kitchen and clean it up it's a tip!! Also hoping it might inspire my BF to pick up a duster in his own flat... Ooo an idea for my next article

Stinky Socks, pots and bathrooms

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A female reader, Fate100percent United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2011):

Hahaha, everyone deserves a ME day!! (I'm single, and still have them!!)

I know it is a bit naughty, but I work most weekends, and my mum expects me to go for Sunday dinner every Sunday I can...(and mostly I oblige!) But sometimes I tell a lil fib, n say I am working...(I get up late, play with the furbies (cats) and stay in my p.j.'s all day, make nice food all day, have a few scoops, watch shite on the telly and slob on the setee!!)

Everyone should have a ME day!!! Infact it should be the 'Law'...!!!!!!!!! Hee hee xxx

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