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writes:What chance does a woman over 50 and divorced have of ever meeting a nice man when there are so many pretty young attractive girls around and many willing to give sex very easily?I have never been easy meat even when I was younger although of course have had relationships and indeed been married BUT even though I am considered attractive by the women I work with it seems as if the men now dont want women of their own age they just want the younger girls so I am destined to a long lonely life?? and yes I have tried evening classes dancing classes etc but they still want younger ones. Its a shame _I feel as if my life is wasted.My friends brother has been hurt TWICE and lost his house TWICE and is in a care home-so he says men should learn by his mistakes and wish he had stuck with women his own age-(although of course its NOT always the case not saying it is-but could be!!!!)Any reassurance here???? Do any of you men or know any men who have actually liked women of their own age?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): I am over 50 and am with a guy 15 years younger than me, we live together.....although I can't say that we will stay together forever or get married, but we are pretty happy for the most part, our age difference is not the challenges we have, they are more about career and economy issues.....those never seem to go away.
My point is, don't close yourself off to younger men, you'd be surprised how many do not care that you are older and are attracted to your maturity and lack of game playing....Just be careful not to get hurt if this younger man can't commit to you.....but have fun and enjoy things that interest you...don't be on the hunt, that smells of desperation. Be focused on you and you will be happier with or without a man, and that confidence is sexy to men, they will flock to you just to see what makes you tick, and out of that, you get to choose who you want to be with....we women have that power over men, we choose, not them.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Take heart, I see women in your age bracket and much older marrying for the 2nd (or 3rd) time (usually because they are widowed) and I think to myself, if they can find and attract a man, any woman can. Take a look around your nearest Walmart and you'll find all kinds of strange people who have found their perfect match at every age. You will find him. Just don't give up.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Hey you are mixing in the wrong circles by the sound of it. My mum was mid fifty's when she met her guy she has been with now for about 4 years. She is 60 next year. They are happy as larry, and my mum was completely happy on her own and was single (apart from dating the odd bloke here n there) for 30 years!
Dont lose heart.
C xxxxx
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