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writes:Okay people yall really did help on my last question but now i need help with somthing else...Okay i have this guy friend who is gay. He has just recently came out of the closet to his close friends but ive pretty much always knew he was gay. He likes this guy a lot...and i mean ALOT. He writes errotic stories about him and his crush and writes in his journal every night about him Well the other day a couple of the wrong people (snotty two faced people who dont care about other peoples feelings) found out and told his crushWell his crush freaked out and started deneying the accusations that he was also gay (which personally i think he is and so does everyone else) but anyway my friends was hurt very badly and crys nearly everyday and is constantly depressed when he's no crying.i tried telling him he cant make the guy be gay or yet force him out of the closet if he is. He doesnt understand this and wont accept it as true. I guess its just hard being one of the only guys who has admitted he's gay at my schoolim sorry im making this so long and theres much more i could add but i guess the real question is what can i say to make him feel better and get over this? I could REALLY use the help.Please. Thank you. Much Love.
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reader, lotmoney13 +, writes (19 October 2008):
Hey i think i can help. i have somewhat been in your friends position, but not as far. i have a mad crush on someone, a straight guy!!!! go figure!!! but i think i know how he feels. he feels really bad because he really thought he loved this guy, but it just blew-up in his face. i can knda compare myself but i would just say, look this guy obviously isnt what your looking for. as i would really hate to admit it to myself. but he needs to know if he gets hurt on this process it probably didn't fall into place like he wants or he thought. so really make him know that the hurt he went through isn't equal to the love he feels for the guy, and the guy isn't really worth it. i'm sorry but i think you actually help me solve my problems. here i am trying to help, but also i am living it.... so anyways help him realize he is too good for that type of pain. i wish i knew i was.
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