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writes:Theres this guy. And i really like him. And we flirt all the time but i know that doesnt mean that he likes me. but we get along so well. and he tries to make moves but teachers will come or friends will interupt and i think he gets a little discouraged. and yeah i know what your gonna say so you make the move. but i cant do that. and we talk to each other on the phone and online, and we act like weve been in a relationship for years. Its like we're together but not technically. i dont know if he feels the same way i do . What should i do?
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reader, xxxsophxx +, writes (20 July 2007):
right first of all go for it!
he must like you or concider you as atleast more than i friend.
I have been in the same relationship as you for a YEAR now and once you get really close but don't end up in a relationship its really hard to let go. The boy i like admited to me the other day he used to like me,but know hes got a girlfriend and i missed my chance. I know you don't want to make a move so maybe just be a little more flirty and let him know in a more obvious way. Maybe hes scared of regection too.
write back if you need more help.
hope it goes well! xxxxx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 You should try to find out for sure what he is up to.
It seems to me that either a) he just wants close friendship, or b) he is interested but is afraid his telling you would spoil the friendship. You know, he gives you a lot of attention and that sure means something.
You mention you can't make the move. I wonder why. But then, I can suggest you give him a hint that he cannot mistake for friendship. In my opinion, most hints are a very bad idea, as they can be taken to mean either of two things. But, if you give him a hint that is strong enough, that should work and spare you the embarrassment.
Hope this helps.
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