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writes: Hi, I have a problem and hope you can help.I have liked this girl for 3 years and I thought she liked me - ie the way she acts around me and her former best mate told me she did - and my folks must know this cause they always tease me about he.But I have been too scared to ask her out and now my mate asked her out and she is going out with him - but I know he wants other girls and I think he just wants to be secure or sommit - but I know he aint right for her. He is nasty etc.. And I am so jealous and mad and I cannot stop thinking about her - I told her by text that how I felt while she is going out with him but she aint acted any differently - what can I do? I really really want to go out with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2005): Hey I wrote the question - quick recap - she has broke up with him!!! - What do I do now?
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (27 June 2005):
 Tell her again, but to her face this time.
I wouldn't normally suggest doing this as she is seeing someone else but if you just tell her that you really like her and that at least you wish to remain good friends with her. That way, she will know that if things do go badly with this other guy, that you will be there for her.
If, however, she is happy with him, you will have to let her go and find out for herself if he is a bad lot.
There isn't much else you can do apart from being friendly with her and see what happnes next. Don't moan about the other guy, that is liable to put her off. She must find out about him in her own time.
If she knows you are there and you care for her, she will turn to you and things may happen from there.
Good luck.
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