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writes: My ex and I went out for almost a year and a half. For the first year or so everything was great, but the last few months were awful, we argued all the time and rarely got on well. Because I started uni about 9 months into our relationship I wondered if that could have made things worse, plus I had a lot of problems (which he has since helped me with) which I think may have brought him down.The thing is he decided that I was too much work as a girlfriend and we broke up. We are trying to be friends (although this is really difficult for me as I want him back). We both still really love eachother and I know that we can work things out if I can just convince him to give me another chance.Please can anyone give me tips on how I could get him back and tr and keep him in my life?
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reader, Anja +, writes (2 June 2006):
 I agree with smeedle on this one. Too much work...for a girlfriend?!! Sorry but he sounds pathetic and immature. What an idiotic thing to say!! Sounds like a poor escuse for breaking it up. You are best off without him, don't stay friends with him, he doesn't deserve your friendship.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 He has decided to bail on the relationship as you are deemed "too high maintenance" when the going got tough he got going!!
Stop blamming your self for all the problems with the relationship, just accept that he wanted out and thats it.
Move on and find someone else, yes it is hard, the ending of a love affair always is but it really is not the end of the world and you will get over him, staying friends is never a good idea as one thing leads to another and in the end you end up in the same mess only one person will definatly get hurt.
Accept his decision it is for the best.
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