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writes: how do you go about telling your ex that you love her? without her thinking that you are desperate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): I think you should just tell her how you feel but don't make it 2 detailed. Tell her: "you care for her and that you'd like to give your realtionship another chance if she's willing to. If not, then you understand and hope you can stay friends." This doesn't sound desperate, you're not harrassing her or bothering her and you can see how she feels. If you don't say anything she won't be able to read your mind. And if you wait for her to come to you, well, what if she thinks you don't want her back? Maybe she's afraid to tell you how she's feeling. Since I don't know why you guys broke up in the first place then i can't go into more detail or advice but I hope I've helped you out. Good luck! =)
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (2 June 2006):
 Well it depends if you told her you loved her before you broke up and why you broke up ? If shes moved on then there is probably no point. How long did you go out for ? What made you break up ? You might sound desperate but on the otherhand it does depend on the circumstances, theres not really alot to go on here, and it does depend if its a last ditched attempt to get her back. Did you do something wrong and thats why your not together ? If you can fill us in a bit we might be able to offer better advice.
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reader, shania +, writes (1 June 2006):
 You cant....it doesn't matter what you say,if she finished with you and you want her back,so you confess to her that you love her,then she will know that you are desperate to win her back....but thats not a bad thing.If you think you have a chance then write her a letter saying that you miss her and that you do love her and then wait and see.I wouldn't keep it up though,because if she really wants you back then she will come to you...either way.
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