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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm gay and I have a good female friend who is straight,me being gay doesnt affect out friendship at all.she is 100% cool with me being gay and we rarely talk about it.My straight friend is 100% straight, likes a drink, one night about 6 weeks ago, when she was drinking she kissed my neck and put myfinger in her mouth for a few minutes,and told me how soft my hands were, then she stopped adn I changed the subject, that's it nothing else! I did nothing, I sat there and then after quickly changed the subject,which worked, she was drinking, I wasnt.She then almost went to sleep due to the alcohol and being tired. Next time I saw her she didnt remember that she did this and I never told her, it not affected our f/ship at all and I know that she is straight and would never do anything to ruin the f/ship, shes my friend, and shes notaffectionate with ppl when sober, she just not a touchy person with anyone, she has to know them well. i can give her a friendly hug, as i have gotten to know her, but not often, thats cool its just her.Sounds stupid but I sometimes cant stop thinking about what she did that night ages ago, i wont act on anything! how do i totally forget? she doesnt have feelings, alchohol makes her do weird things she'd not do when not drinking? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): Don't think on it, she was drunk, we all get more affectionate when drunk
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (10 June 2009):
 well if she doesn't do this when sober probably was the alcohol but i noticed you haven't said she has a boyfriend.
perhaps that night she felt lonely.
and because you were there and she's been through alot with you she wanted to be loved.
maybe she felt lonely and the alcohol just made her feel affectionate towards you perhaps she wanted to stop feeling lonely and you were there.
maybe she doesn't show it when sober because she feels it's not cool.
but when under the influences of alcohol it can drag all kinds of things up.
anyways i wouldn't play upon this as i guess she was feeling lonely.
but good of you not to let it ruin the friendship :)
hope this helps.
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