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writes:Hey, me and my wife have been married 7 years and still have a pretty good sex life mainly do it about 3-4 times a week sometimes more sometimes less. its just last night we had some very good but very unexpected mad sex. There wasn't really ny communication between us and i know she enjoyed it last night and so did i. But shes always told me and i have always felt the same that she would rather have the closeness of it and everything, the love making basically than just sex. I just feel really down because of it because after i did just go to sleep and i'm pretty sure that she would have wanted a cuddle afterwards. I feel really bad now because i don't know why i just went to sleep i had had afew drinks but neither of us were drunk, maybe on the way there. I just really wanna make it up to her, give her a proper night of love making. I really do love her with all my heart but i can't get it outta my head esspecially as we went out that night to take her mine off things because she lost her dad about 3 weeks ago, i just feel so bad, i want to cuddle her 24/7 now obviously its not possible because we both work. How do i make it up to her and get the fact that i feel so bad out of my head?
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reader, eddie  +, writes (7 October 2007):
 Unless she's told you it bothered her, you're making too much out of it. You realize how you feel and now it's time to work on it. Don't plan for a big night of love making, plan for a night of romance....no sex. Do something really nice for her and end it by snuggling etc. I think men, myself included, have a more difficult time getting past the snuggling part. We can bond emotionally / snuggle while sitting together watching TV, walking hand in hand etc. In the bed though, it leads to other things. I find I appreciate / miss my wife most when she's away visiting her family. Always make time to reassure the one you love that they are important to you. If you don't, someone else will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): Hi Hun,
You love your wife very much, you have a great sex life and last night was good maybe you both needed that a little wild passion never hurt anyone, If you want to give her a special night of pampering to show her how special she is to you, Start off with a lovely massage make your room look lovely with candles and supprise her dedicate the whole night to her belive me that will make her night hun.
You may not be with her all the time but you can show her in little ways how much you feel for her by just holding her and kissing her lots, Your not doing anything wrong hunny, Love comes naturally and you want to do this for her just be there love. Sorry to here of your wifes loss TAKE CARE OF BOTH OF YOU LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, rcn  +, writes (7 October 2007):
 You really love your wife. But getting crazy every once in a while, maybe you both needed it. I would apologize for just falling asleep, but as far as getting wild, she may look at you funny as "it was great, why apologize"
After a couple of drinks, and the wildness you shared, its easier to fall asleep than your usual making love. You burn more calories, and tire yourself out much quicker. I wouldn't worry about that, because I bet if you asked her about the night, she may still be thinking about how your routine changed for that night.
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