Are we over for good? He says he loves me but then he says he shouldn't see me anymore!
Q. hi I have been seeing a man for around 18months. We are both in our 40's I supported him last year when he was made redundant by letting him live with me, until he found a place to rent and a job. He now has a managers job. I have never met ...
A. 22 January 2010: I think that he is trying to wrap you around his little finger with mind games.
And these mind games are working with you, he tells you he loves you, then pushes you away - this is the elastic band technique.
The plan is supposed to be that you... (read in full...)
I need advice on how to help my boyfriend with his testicular cancer
Q. i am dating this amazing guy, i am completely crazy about him. the only problem is his health. unfortunately my boyfriend has testicular cancer. i am so worried about him, i don't know what to do. i can't even be with him right now so there's ...
A. 22 January 2010: You need to be strong for him at these tough times.
I agree with the love letter: write about...
when/how you met,
up until this moment now,
all the funny and good things, leave out the bad parts!
and all you can do is hope for the best now,
i... (read in full...)
I havent heard from my boyfriend since New Years Eve, what should I do?
Q. l am a 23 year year old. have been dating my boyfriend for a year now.he is 27. he has gone all quite. we were suppose to meet on new year eve to go to a party. he called saying he was coming but never showed up. he didn't even text a message ...
A. 22 January 2010: Yeah - His brother seems to be the one who can give you the answers you need.
And to be honest, if he's not been in touch that long, the chances are he has another women. :/
I feel for you - I really do. x... (read in full...)
His mum's secret is haunting me and our relationship is becoming unbearable, what do I do?
Q. Dear Aunties. My problem is my fiance sucked and licked a strippers boobs on he's bachelors party, i wasnt cool about it and told him im not happy he says it was only a party meant nothing. sometimes i think about it the people that arranged it told ...
A. 21 January 2010: To be honest..
If you really care about this man, I would personally take up a marriage councillor - and express all your problems/issues in which you obviously have with this person, as you are obviously both putting strains on eachother - unne... (read in full...)
It seems whenever I open my heart for someone I get crushed, its getting really hard to trust girls now!
Q. love sucks. Ive really liked two different girls in the past 2 months, and both of them have hung out with me a lot, told me they really liked me, kissed me and everything looked promising and for one reason or another they slowly became distant a...
A. 21 January 2010: The answer to your question..
Is like one girl at a time - and pay enough attention to the ONE girl you like.
I'm sorry but when you kiss two girls even when you're not dating either of them - They find out about each other, and are equally ... (read in full...)
I am a female with a confusing freindship with my gay male friend who I love
Q. Hello all, I am a female and I have had a kind of 'bi' male freind for the last two years ( Well, I say kind of bi he is gay at the crux of it - he has dated and slept with a few women in the past, but now men)Anyway,he is very nice, we are ver...
A. 21 January 2010: I personally think that you should explain your feelings and compassion towards him; it may be difficult for him to understand - as he knows that you're well aware that he says he is gay.
But if you don't tell him out right how you feel about him ... (read in full...)
He claims the women he messages online are just friends! What do I believe?
Q. I have been with my partner for almost four years. Last August i discovered that he had been texting and calling another woman day and night. He had even been round her house (to fix her tap...hmm..) whilst i was on holiday with my children and ...
A. 14 January 2010: I would either break up with him - for the best of your mental health and quite basically your feelings. Or I would lay it on the line that he either stops calling/texting other people day and night, or tells you who and when they're calling ... (read in full...)
One last text to make him feel bad
Q. i actually thought he liked me.. made me feel so Special and pressured into sex.. and i gave in and i regret it and hate myself SO much:( he didn't even ring to find out if i got home safe or not..it was yesterday and i dont think hes e...
A. 14 January 2010: I don't think this guy is worth it, if he ever talks about sleeping with you again, I would go for the guilty text talk - But not right now, he's just using mind games to see how far he can wrap you round his little finger - and don't let him know ... (read in full...)
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