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writes: i have been with my girl friend for over a year and lost my virginity 2 her a few months back although she had a sexual partner before me she has never had an orgasm. i really want 2 give her her first one to return all the pleasure she has given me. the problem is during sex when i bring her close 2 an orgasm where orally or just vigina sex she makes me stop by pushing me off her. she tells me she wants 2 orgasm but dont no why she wants to stop but really wants 2 have her first orgasm with me. please help thanks.
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reader, wookiee's girlfriend +, writes (27 February 2006):
 it's great that you feel that you want her to have her first orgasm with you. i think you should tell her this. you should respect her when she tells you to stop, but keep trying.
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (27 February 2006):
 This is a bit of a weird situation. She says she wants to experience it with you but pushes you away when she comes close! The only reason that I can think of that she would do this is because she might not be relaxed enough to feel a full orgasm! It sounds as though she is uncomfortable if she is pushing you away. You should voice your thoughts or worries to her directly. Does she even realise she is pushing you away? This is probably something that can be understood or solved through good old fashioned conversation, good luck mate, ;-)
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reader, Myobi +, writes (27 February 2006):
 It sounds to me that she just wants everything to feel perfect for her first orgasm. If something feels wrong or she doesn't feel comfortable that's when she stops you. Try a nice romantic night with cuddling, slow love making and touching. Don't try to push her into feeling ok about it or making her feel like she should let you, just tell her she can trust you and make her feel good.An orgasm isn't the most important thing although I do understand you wanting to share something special with her, just be happy you're with her and happy you have someone who loves you.
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