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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years and we now live together and have been living together since March. We were both so excited at first but now my feelings have started to change. We don't argue or anything like that but I see him now more as my best friend than my boyfriend. We got out seperatly much more than going out as a couple, we hardly ever have sex anymore (once a month)and it feels to me like we are slowly drifting apart and leading seperate lives. I just can't believe how much our relationship has changed and I get really upset about it! I still love him and I know he loves me but it just dosnt seem like a proper relationship anymore.If anyone has any advice please help me cos I don't want to loose him from my life. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): You really really need this. I bought a book on CD from ebay.com.au called Intimate Pleasure and it helped me out so much with my relationship. You might want to have a look at it. ;) it will help you...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 October 2009):
This is a natural progression, and if you don't deal with it now, you will split up. However, you've seen there is a problem, and you're trying to fix it. You say you don't spend enough time together as a couple, you don't have sex all that much, and you seem to be drifting apart. Answer - spend more time together and get to know each other again, have more intimacy, and that doesnt' mean sex straight away, and be close to each other. Talk to him and say you're worried and you would really like to soend time together. And use the word worried. Men respond to direct words! So don't hint, be clear. Lots of luck.
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