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writes:hello please help, this is not a clean question. And it might be a stupid one. Can you tell if your wife is cheating by looking at her used underwear. My wife tells me there is drainage that every woman has it. But I only seem to notice it when she works late or when I have been gone overnight from work. It looks like her juices or more. How do I tell. thank you for your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): I would not confront her. That will just make her be more sneaky. As previous posters stated, hiring a PI is a possibility. There is also a DNA test being offered where you can take a sample from the underwear and send it to a lab, but I don't know the specifics. Both will hold up in court. Going to her work may not hold up in court though it could give you the information you want.
Being stuck with a cheat is awful. Hopefully everything works out.
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (4 February 2008):
A woman's cycle is roughly 28 days as is the lunar cycle. Day 1-5 being a period. A woman then begins to ovulate and around the 14-18th day she is fertile and can conceive. Prior to this the mucous plug begins to drain out and this is when there is the most discharge happening and the aroma is sweet like honey . The smell of sperm mixed with the warmth of the vagina is slightly fishy smelling. If she is cheating and he is using a condom you got buckley's mate of finding out. The best way to tell is to either confront her outright, hire a pi,or turn up to her work late at night or ring. No one wants to be cheated on but then if she isn't then she will get slightly ticked off with you for insinuating. If she is she will get ticked off with you for insinuating. Good luck mate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
How did this occure you looking in the first place hunny you must have had doubts before you started to check her underwear. Anyway thats by n by every woman has some kind of discharge, There is no way hunny you can come to a conclusion from this, I mean if she were up to something so to speak wouldnt she make sure her underwear was out of the way and clean. It would be abit daft to leave the evidence in the wash basket, She may be having a little fun on her own sweetheart, You need to sit and have a talk with her if this has got to this point. And just explain you are worried and cannot get this out of your head, I do hope things are ok TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, Lily Moll +, writes (4 February 2008):
There isn't a sure-fire way to tell just by looking at her underwear. Drainage is normal; there's more when a woman is turned on, obviously, but it's nothing that will hold up in divorce court. If you've gotten to the point of looking through her used underwear for signs of cheating, she must be exhibiting other signs that make you suspicious. Or is this the only thing? You could always hire a private detective. They're cheaper than most people realize, and it's said that most people who go to a p.i. to investigate their spouse end up having their suspicions confirmed.
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