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*ngelheartjosh
writes:Hello,My question is, I'm confused about my x, we broke up about a year ago...we didn't see each other for the whole year, we were under strict rules not to, after the year was up he came right to me, told me how much he had missed me, loved me wanted to be with me, he cried to me, he was sorry that so much time had gone by that we were apart. I told him it was a good thing that we grew as adults and matured and learned from our past.We do love each other very much he has been working very hard which before he did not have a job.well he still lives with his live in GF who is much older than us we are 35 she is 46 he is not in love with her, and was planning on leaving her to come home to me, we kept in contact for about 3 weeks and I didn't sleep with him, I told him not untill he left her that I would he respected that, I seen him about 3 times and we talked on phone everyday for 3 weeks, he had even told me he told her he was leaving her cause he is still in love with me....He has been with this woman for 7 years she treats him like it's her son, he says though when he is with me and my son I make him wanna be a man and go to work and tAKE care of us, rather than a woman taking care of him.Well after the 3 weeks he told me he had to tie up loose ends with her pay some bills he was also getting layed off I believe not sure, and after he would be coming home to myself and my son. I never heard from him again that was 1 month ago I am so confused as to why???? Why did he say he wanted to be a man and tell her he was leaving her to come to me?? But at the same time couldn't tell me he chose to stay with her??? He never told me anything!!! Someone please help me see from the outside in, what really happened here? Thank you. PLEASE I NEED MORE HELP AND RESPONSES!!!!!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 I see from my followups that you posted this same question on May 16th, and you got 5 answers all of which saying the same thing : he acted this way because he was and is a moocher , a coward and a liar.
Now, don't get me wrong, you are welcome to repost , and to seek for more answers, as much as you want.
But, I have like the feeling that if you'll get , as it's highly probable, another batch of " moocher, coward and liar " you still won't be satisfied , until you won't find some good soul that will tell you what you want to hear. That he is, in fact, a honest ,great guy and he loves to to pieces, only.... what ? is he under an evil spell ? was he abducted by aliens ?
It's like you can't admit, nothwistanding all the evidence you've got, that this person is very capable of exploiting, betraying and telling lies,and therefore his behaviour is totally self explanatory- he acted like this- because this is what he is and this is what he does.
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