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female
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30-35,
*parkles92
writes:Ok im a 18 year old female I lost my virginity at 17 going 18 bit before then I would finger myself and had my boyfriend do it also and its like my whole body gets a really great feeling like I get all warm inside my stomach clit and pussy muscles get super tight and I feel like I want to cry out I get this feeling during sex and when my boyfriend give me oral sex but I really want to know do I be having an orgasm this is a pretty embarrassing question for my age but I just really want to know
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male
reader, Honest Answer +, writes (28 December 2010):
 That is an orgasm.Good Luck!Jeff
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): if its an orgasm the buildup which feels very good builds up gradually but then very suddenly the intensity gets a whole lot stronger and then suddenly the intensity goes away yet you're not feeling frustrated (like if you had stopped the stimulation) instead you feel satisfied.
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female
reader, YouWish +, writes (28 December 2010):
 Fishdish is right. You are close! It sounds like what you're having is the buildup, and that makes you want to cry out, sure! The next time you feel that, do not stop! Keep up the stimulation (your guy, yourself, whichever!) and you'll feel more than hot. You'll feel this incredible sensation that starts at your clit and radiates to your stomach, down your legs, your feet and hands tingle, your face flushes, and for several seconds, you're washed in this massive ecstasy. You'll feel your vagina contract rhythmicly when that happens, though you'll more likely notice as you're "coming down" from the orgasm.You will *know* when it happens, and it will be unmistakable. Next time your guy goes down on you and you feel that tightening and need to cry out, KEEP GOING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(note the massive amount of exclamation points. Seriously. :))
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female
reader, fishdish +, writes (28 December 2010):
 I'm more on the close but no cigar side of things, not because you didn't know (I was having orgasms by myself before I knew they were orgasms), but I think it's pretty universal that the vagina clenches, and releases tension in a rhythmic, opening closing, fluttering kinda thing. If your vagina ONLY tightened, and didn't sort of open and close, then I'd say it wasn't an orgasm. But I'm open to others proving me otherwise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): if your legs arent shakeing and your not goin out of control then naa your not having an orgasm sorry u thought u were
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): Keep going! Don't think you're quite there yet! Its the release after (can take some time to get to) If you having trouble, the next time you go to the restroom (urinate) stop mid stream! That muscle is your kegels. Now that you know that, next time you have sex use that muscle. And most likely you'll get there! Good Luck!!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): Sounds like it. Enjoy.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): Keep in mind this is coming from a man but my money is on....
Close but no cigar.
If a guy has an oragasm there is no question about if we did or didn't.
I am guessing it is the same for a woman.
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female
reader, TheAngelWatcher  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 If this sensation feels great and you know that you want more of it, then you have certainly reached what we call an orgasm!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): When you have an orgasm, you will know!
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