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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i had sex for the first time two days ago, he didnt properly go in fully, but he went in a little bit cos it hurt so muchbut since, i've been having a lot of discharge :S is that normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice
i really appreciate it
i read up that could be first signs of pregnancy too but i highly doubt it is that
im gonna go docs with my boyfriend
thanks again xxx
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (12 April 2010):
ok and now an answer from a lady.Yur first time can be very painful, the answer before is correct in that you do have a hymen and when it is broken it is very painful and you can bleed for a few days.sex can be painful for quite some time because your vagina is also being stretched in a way it is not use to. it also makes a huge differece as to how relaxed you are because if you are not completely relaxed about the situation then your vagina will be tight and wont stretch.If you are having sex for the first time and felt in any way pressured into it then this wont help at all, if you are comfortable with it then you will have to have a very understanding boyfriend who will be very gentle with you the first time he goes all the way in. he will have to take it easy and go in very slowly and you will hae to relax.once this has happened then expect a light bleed for a few days.also the other answer is correct in saying make sure if you are not already very moist then you use plenty of lub (ky jelly etc) and please make sure you are using protection, you probably are already but because you are young and because i am an adult i jst feel i should mention that even if he doesn't cum inside you you can still get pregnant and you can still get sexualy transmitted diseases. always use a comdom.
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reader, clairabella +, writes (12 April 2010):
 Yes it an be normal, many first times have been known for a guy not to enter them "fully" due to the tightness, and sometmes your muscles will tighten automatically as it is an experience you aren't used to. Discharge can be normal, but it is best to be checked over by a GP incase it is an STI x
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