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writes:So I don't really have a problem but just wanted to ask something.well basically i've been going out with a guy for about a month and a half and its all going well. but this is my first proper boyfriend and I'm worried if I'm taking it at the right pace and stuff so would like some general advice.well we havent had sex yet. although I would like to but don't know if its too fast?we were being quite flirty today and just sending stupid texts and i had just showered and he texted how he'd love to see me in a towel.So i sent a pic and he texted back saying how he was getting rather excited and finding it hard to concentrate now. does that mean he had a hard on?Does it sound like he is at the same stage and wants to have sex too?I know this doesnt really count as a problem but guess wouldnt mind a bit of friendly advice.Also would love to hear from you guys out there.Thank youxx.
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (6 September 2011):
 I think that the "is it too soon" question is always difficult to answer as it's completely different for every individual and depends on the 2 people involved. Some may think it's too soon, others will say it's fine.
What's most important is that it feels right for you. If you feel ready with this guy, then go for it. If you're not sure whether it's the right thing to do then wait till you feel it's the right time.
Noone can say whether sleeping with this guy will have a positive or negative effect on your relationship with him. It might just be one of those things where you have to take the risk and see what happens but be ready if things go wrong.
Take me and my boyfriend... We met over the internet and first startet talking in November 2008. January 09 he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend, although we'd not actually met at that point. That march he came to visit for a week, and it was in that week that we first slept together. Now, 2 and a half years later we're still together, living together and have a beautiful baby boy.
So, I guess all I'm trying to say is, don't base your decision on what other people may think or say. And don't worry about it being too soon or not. Just make sure it feels right for you, no matter when you choose to have sex with this guy.
I hope this helps. Sorry for rambling on :P Good luck xx
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 September 2011):
 Yes! and he does so you can lay back and enjoy the tease some more
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