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30-35,
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writes:I've been dating someone for two months now, everything was going really well, until I left town for a week. After that he stopped calling and texting me as much. He's really busy with work and is really over stressed; however, I wonder if he is over me. I spoke to him about it and he apologized for the distance. I wonder though if that is just a way of appeasing me. I don't know if he still wants to see me and I don't always want to be the one that initiates. Is this just a natural phase in a relationship?
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 Guys don't always balance a relationship well with stress. Give him a little bit of breathing room, and maybe make a weekend date with him. Plan it for Friday night, tell him he needs to take a break and relax, and chose a venue that is more intimate so his attention will be on you and not loud club music or something equally as frustrating.
If he doesn't respond, then I would be available, but looking around at other options. If he can't/won't make time for you, then there's no point in sticking around much longer.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (9 April 2009):
 if he is very stressed this does happen. even in a marriage it happens. guys get in there moods. if i were you stick it out for a little bit and be aware of his strees. try getting him to a relaxing technique to calm himself.
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