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writes:i kissed a lad on the cheek to say thankyou and he kissed me on the cheek back is this cheating on my boyfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, JohnK  +, writes (8 November 2007):
If you were attracted to this guy or vice-versa and hoping to be close, then this would be cheating. Otherwise, if it is just 'friendship' I appreciate you kind of a kiss on the cheek, then it's fine. Don't worry about it.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 It could be cheating, flirting or nothing at all. It totally depends on the context and the details. If there was absolutely nothing between the two of you then it's not cheating. If the guy likes you, you're aware of it and you were too close to him, it's not such a good thing. If he is a friend who did you a big favor, then it's normal. My wife greets some of our male friends with a kiss on the cheek. It all depends on what is going on behind the scenes. Only you and the other guy really know. Why are you concerned about this? The fact you're worried leads me to think that someone had other intentions or feelings they're not being honest about.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (7 November 2007):
 If it was only a simple thank you kiss on the cheek and a return of one I don't think it would be considered anything other than a friendly thank you.
If your b/f knows about it and thinks differently it could be misunderstood. If he knows and it ok with it then you don't have a problem.
Hopefully the b/f will not be a jealous sort and will appreciate your kindness toward another friend. If he is the jealous type be sure to let him know that you have done this because if he finds out another way it could mean big trouble.
May God give you the courage to be a true friend and a faithful loving companion to your mate.
Godspeed.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (7 November 2007):
 nope, not at all
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reader, Kait  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 I wouldn't classify that as cheating but it's definatly flirting on his part!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): No, of course it isn't!
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