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I love the thought of love! However I dont know how to love! Never been "in love" before, maybe dont know how or what that means. I need to get past the denial of being in love and being cynical to the point of why anyone would love "me", to distrust to finally pushing them away. What is my problem??? I want to be in love, unconditionally, and I'm capable of it! I know I'm stronger now and more sure of myself than I ever have been.

In the past I know my decisions of partners werent the best. Picking out of convenience, not seeing the whole picture, being satisfied for the moment.. I dont know. What I do know is there has been alot of time wasted!

I'm very affectionate, loving, caring, attentive, trusted, devoted.. All the great qualities. I love to set the mood and I can make him feel like a million bucks and that he is in a dream. But I struggle to share anything about me.. not that I dont want to cuz I do. It's just that I dont know how. I can talk for hours and days on end about everything else, and I do! I can give the best advice but I cant follow my own. I dont know what to do.

So here I am.. I found this place and see if I can find the answers I'm longing for. So far I've seen good advice! Thanks!

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Should he tell the world he is in love or should he be sensitive to his ex's?

Q.   I am recently in love. He says he loves me very much however doesnt want to say or post anything about that as he thinks it's like flaunting it in front of ex-girlfriends faces and doesnt want to hurt them. I feel he is more sensative to their ...

A.   21 November 2007: Thank you all. It makes much more sense now. I suppose I would also not want to jump into yelling it to the world since it is so new and I know we both need to be sure. I'm not one to fall quickly and foolishly, I protect my heart with steele ... (read in full...)

Is this cheating and should I tell my fiance?

Q.   Should i tell my fiance that i pecked a close male friend on the lips (this happened once when i had been going out with my boy for approx 2 months)? i have no feelings for this person i pecked - in fact, hes like a brother from another mother - ...

A.   20 November 2007: Don't look in the past to stir up trouble, especially if your BF is insecure. It's best to let this "peck" lie dormant since you say there were no feelings in a drunken stupor. Don't sweat the small chit! However if you are feeling guilty need to ... (read in full...)

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