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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My first major boyfriend got back in touch with me the other day and I'm not sure what to do about it. I was completely in love with him but he cheated on me, then after we broke up we just kept hooking up over and over again for about a year until I finally started seeing other people and getting over him. Both of us have been in relationships for over a year now and haven't spoken since last april after we had a major falling out.Yesterday he sent me a myspace message out of the blue saying he realised he treated me like crap and that I'm a wonderful person who deserves better, and he's glad I'm with my current boyfriend because he knows that he'll treat me right. He asked me to get in touch with him.I've told my boyfriend and he said not to contact him because it's just his way of getting me into bed again, but I honestly think it's a sincere apology from someone who's finally grown up. Should I reply to him?
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reader, mature teen! +, writes (20 August 2008):
 I know what your going through! I would say yes contact him (if you want to) just keep your wits about you. But don'y keep it a secret from you current parther that would just casue friction. The ex amy have grown up and just want a coffee and a catch up! On the other hand he might want more. But who know's unless you take that step to find out!
Take cae hun! Best wishes!
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reader, LonelyButNotAlone  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 I think you should respect your current boyfriend's wishes.
You ex already apologized, so what more is there for you and him to talk about?
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