She has feelings for women but wants to stay and work on intimacy with me. I think after 15 years of denial she deserves some peace - what do you think?
Q. I have been in a manogomous relationship with my girlfriend for 15 years. About 10 years ago, she started having very close relationships to straight women. These relationships were very close as in she wouldn't give me the time of day, but lived ...
A. 8 October 2008: Hi, You sound like a really nice guy! You want her to be happy, even if it means not with you! You should tell her to do what ever makes her happy! Allthough she may want to stay how things are! it sounds like she is not quite sure, as if the ... (read in full...)
I have these problems after being sexually assaulted by a family member. Please help.
Q. i was sexually assaulted by my a family member earlier this year and it can really screw me up at times. its not as bad as whatsome people go thru but that doesnt mean it doesnt affect me. i had to explain to my friend today, which im totally fine ...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi hun, Right never balme yourself that is the first and most important thing. You may feel alone in this but your not. Talk to someone if you havn't already! It is a scary and painful thing to do but i promise it helps.
About the self harming ... (read in full...)
I was groped by my cousin and now I am scared of being alone and feel really dirty...
Q. i was groped by my cousin at the beginning of this year and it has messed up parts of my life. i find that i cant sleep at night every now and then because im scared of being alone and that a stranger, or my cousin, will come into the room and tak...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi babe, First thing is don't be scared!!! You are not dirty and people don't think that of you!
Try to talk to someone! parents, A school nurse, teacher, some kind of peer! Some one you feel safe with. I know you are scared hun but try not to be. ... (read in full...)
I don't love my brothers and sisters!
Q. I'm the oldest of seven children and I hate it! The last two babies really upset me because I knew my parents would have less time for me (I was right). But I don't want to tell my parents but I really resent that my parents decided to keep cranking ...
A. 21 August 2008: I really feel for you! I am the youngest of 5! I wasn't planned and i wasn't wanted! I know how hard it is to feel not part of the family. The older you get the more your parents think you don't need them! thats not true! We do! we need them just as ... (read in full...)
Is this a sincere apology from someone that's grown up or is he just trying to get me in bed?
Q. My first major boyfriend got back in touch with me the other day and I'm not sure what to do about it. I was completely in love with him but he cheated on me, then after we broke up we just kept hooking up over and over again for about a year until ...
A. 20 August 2008: I know what your going through! I would say yes contact him (if you want to) just keep your wits about you. But don'y keep it a secret from you current parther that would just casue friction. The ex amy have grown up and just want a coffee and a ... (read in full...)
My mate has told me the biggest secret any woman can tell another woman. What do I do?
Q. right b4 u say it no it is not me..... i have been duped with the biggest secret any woman can tell another woman. basically my mate slept with her ex of 6 yrs ago about a month ago. thats not all.... she is married to my husbands cousin an...
A. 20 August 2008: Oh dear, I real feel for you. I would really feel under presure knowing a secret like that. I don't know what to say apart from try to get her to tell her husband herself! She proberley won't be able to keep in quite forever. And it would be better ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be in love?
Q. Hi, i am 12 and i think i may be in love with my boyfriend...am i too young? My friends all think i am. Someone please help!...
A. 20 August 2008: No hun, Of course your not too young! THere is no suck thing! Love is a wonderful and magical thing. All i will say is be careful. Love at your age is fantastic but may not last too long. And you don't want to go getting your heart broken now do ... (read in full...)
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