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writes: I was on a second date recently. We both travelled into town together to see a show. We had a really good time and after the show we had some time to kill before the train back home arrived. We decided to take a look at a fashionable new store that had recently opened. Walking though the mens department she suddenly starts holding suits and shirts and ties up to me telling me how good I would look in this one or that one and how much it suited me.Is this a good sign or does she think I am not well dressed. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2016): Let her dress you up! Women love it! If she has seen you dressed-up, she apparently likes what she sees!
Lucky, dude!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone who has replied.
She has seen me smartly dressed already because our first date was the usual "after work drinks and chat" type of thing so I was in a suit and tie there.
We are meeting up again so it can't have been that bad !
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (22 February 2016):
Maybe a bit of both ? One think does not exclude the other.
I mean, clearly she is into you, - women do not go around giving image makeovers to perfect strangers they have no intention to ever hang out with in future. Then again, maybe she thinks there's always room for improvement- and there IS ,particularly for stuff like fashion and elegance.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 February 2016):
I think it's a good sign. Doesn't mean you aren't dressing "good enough" - it might mean she would LOVE to see you in something less casual.
As someone who have seen her husband in uniforms for years and years, seeing my husband in a NICE pin striped suit (that I had picked out) was a big WOW for me. Because 1. he looked VERY good in it, 2. He KNEW he looked very good in it and 3. it was so dressed up for him.
A guy in uniform can be very attractive, but a man in a GOOOOOOOOD suit? Very very nice :)
My first BF was a jeans and T-shirt guy, but for a few formal occasions he would dress up in suits and he looked like a million bucks.
It's like if you saw a HOT little black/red/white dress and show it to her, knowing (or thinking) she would like AMAZING in it.
Definitely a good thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2016): It's a good sign. Women like shopping for men. It's part of the benefit of a girlfriend. She apparently likes shopping and it was purely for the sake of entertainment, and one of her little habits. It is also letting you know that she'd like to see you dressed-up. It shouldn't be taken any other way. You're her life-sized Ken doll. Enjoy it!
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (21 February 2016):
I think it's a good sign. She's comfortable enough to share fashion sense with you. It's the friendliness of playing dress up. Some guys actually appreciate if women can give them suggestions what to wear.
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