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writes:Is there anyone that can help me come to grips with the fact that I am in a meaningless relationship? There is no affection or closeness. The son of a bitch wants to pull me around like a dog on a leash and I want to do my own thing. Because love blinded me at the beginning, I let him bring me down to an all-time low: no money, no friends, no job, nothing. I have nothing and yes I put 80% of the blame on him. I thought it was love but I was just a convenience for him. Gave him money out of love, let him drive my car out of love, everything I did for him and gave to him was out of love.........why? Because the dumb fuck claimed he loved me too and I believed it.When I had money and a working car he was a great person. Now that I am low he is less interested but now I no longer care like I used to because I truly hate him. This "courtship" is meaningless. I wish I could leave but I am stuck here.......I can not get my own apartment 1-because of no job and 2-because of 1446.00 "mistake" on my credit report. I am working on getting a job, here in Houston, TX its not simple.So, for the time being I am left to cope with my mistake and I just need help on what I can do to keep from murdering him or going insane and doing something to myself. He told me I had a curfew the day I was out looking for a job and filling out applications. I also will be starting school again August 27 and it would be nice to not have him around at all........ but, he will be. Just need to know how to keep this fuck out of my head and ear until I am able to get out of here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): Are there any women's shelters that you can get to? If so, I would recommend you pack some things and LEAVE - OF COURSE doing your packing and leaving when he is not home!
Leave him a note saying that its over and you will not be seeing him again; nor will you be in contact in any way. I need hardly add that you do not tell him where you're going!
NOTE: I just now looked up "Counselling services for Women in Houston, TX" on my browser. There are several. Try looking them up and get in touch with one of them regarding your situation.
Let us know how you manage - good luck!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (22 August 2007):
 Hi
Geez he sounds like a right control freak!
Im only in the Uk so i wouldnt have a clue how you get away from someone in your neck of the woods.
It sucks when you are with someone that uses you. They are the sort of people that have a use for everone in their lives, if they dont have a use for them, they dont wanna know. It would be nice to be with a guy that actually wants to be with you because they want to be with you ey!
Is there no way at all that you cant get out of there, even to rent a room somewhere? start again, because you're wasting time on this bozo when you could be starting a new life without the loser. I would rob a bank! Ok maybe not but i would beg steel or borrow if things are that bad hunni.
I cant see how you are gonna loosen the grip hes got until your out of there to be honest?
C xxxxx
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