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writes:Hi , First Thanks for always been helpful. I am very confuse about situation.I talked online with a guy for almost two weeks. finally , I met him yesterday.we met for coffee around 5.30. we had long conversation. he was talking continue. I felt he like me. he asked me about my job I didn't share a lot information about my job. since , I just started my own business. he didn't push to ask more questions about my job. so , after two hours of conversation he started coughing badly. he went to cashier to buy water bottle .I checked my time and it was 7.45. so we met 5.30.my friend was waiting for me in the mall next to coffee shop. when he came back with water I told him I have to go.my friend is waiting for me in the mall. so , he said okay with smile and I walked to mall and he went to his car. next day I mailed him thanks for him and asked him how he feeling now? I said sorry I had to go since my friend is waiting for me.I told him I didn't know we (me and him)are going to have long conversation before I came to meet him I told my friend to come in mall and I help her with cosmetics.NOT response yet my mail.well , I am very attractive and no one rejected me. but , I don't know why he stopped talking with me.what's your views?he didn't like me is reason my job? he didn't like my behavior?what could be reason?I mailed him next day of our meeting .may be he saw me at night on dating site the day we met . I just wanted to know what could be reason?we didn't share our cell no in all that situation.when I left him he started to check his cell.may be he wanted I ask his no...no idea.please help me I don't want same mistake again. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 April 2016):
 He obviously was not interested, don't beat yourself up about it and wonder 1001 different reasons why not, because only he knows the truth. Maybe he did not find you attractive, maybe he didn't feel the spark, or maybe he just was not interested. Let it go and move on. If he didn't like you for who you are well then that is his loss.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 April 2016):
 If it's been 3 days since the date and no word, I'd take it as a no-go. Doesn't mean you DID anything wrong or said anything wrong.
Having a 2 hour conversation on the first date is definitely OK.
If I were you I'd move in to someone else.
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reader, mishi 1 +, writes (24 April 2016):
mishi 1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for reply. I met him on Thursday and massage him on Friday and today in sunday
I didn't hear back from him yet.
he was good looking but his one eye was shaking during conversation. May be he felt I didn't like him for that reason. that's why I went to my friend. my views first meeting more then two hours conversation is enough. thanks again
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reader, miss frank  +, writes (24 April 2016):
Hi. Sounds to me like he just didn't feel it lovely! You don't have to do anything wrong for that to happen...just does! I've been on dates this year where we chat online fine, then we meet...nothing cooking! It just is what it is...i have to say I wouldn't be so rude as to ignore- id text hey you are great but didn't feel the click or whatever- hes just a guy who does a ghost act if it doesn't feel right- let him carry on with it...next!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 April 2016):
Relax. Maybe he went home, had a rum-toddy for his throat and went to sleep.
Give him a few days, and if you don't hear from him, MOVE on. Whether you are pretty or not is irrelevant. Maybe he just didn't feel any chemistry and this have decided to ghost you instead of flat out rejecting you.
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