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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi good people! I have a friend who I regarded as more than just a friend. We went through a rocky period, more on my part, we had little contact, and what I regarded as little effort on her part (not replying texts, not returning calls, not returning email's etc etc.)So I told her by text I was hurt by this behavior of hers, she has for the past few days been saying she is sorry for hurting me, but hasn't offered to call, or email me or give her opinions on why she was not contacting me.I think it is a bit weird to at least not fight your corner or want to fully explore what is wrong right? You can't just say sorry and not explain or expand why you are sorry isn't it? Especially if it is genuine and heartfelt.Either way, maybe I was too rash, should I tell her I value her friendship more than who is right and wrong that I have a low ego etc etc?I know women like extra attention, however I do have feelings too,and they were really hurt bad,and I do deserve some attention too right?
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reader, Kilcardy  +, writes (11 May 2011):
The problem is that you have feelings for this girl which, unfortunately for you, are not reciprocal. You're not looking for a friendship in the true sense of the word with her. You're looking for something more than that. If a girl is not contacting you, she's not interested in you that way. And, if this girl was simply a "friend" as you claim, then an unanswered e-mail or txt is not the end of the world. Stop trying to create something that is not meant to be. I would certainly advise you not to grovel at her feet like you suggest. That type of nonsense will send her running for the hills for sure. Nobody likes a doormat. But, everyone uses one. Good luck.
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