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writes:is swinging booming in real life or does it only sounds like that in the web but in real life it is not that much??and is it true that most swinger couples practice interracial sex??? i mean the wife or th GF especially??
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reader, enjoimx  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 My ex/gf swung a bit while we were dating. It didn't bother me because it didn't seem to affect our relationship. She was soo committed and wonderful to me it was ridiculous. She had complete honesty with me and I with her. I think swinging is all about the circumstance of your relationship. My most recent ex/gf I would have been crushed if she did anything with another guy, but thats because I felt she would do it secretly and to use it to control me. Therefore, yes you can be in love with a person and you can be swingers, but it is extremely rare for it to work out, and it takes a very open minded couple. The reason me and my swinging g/f broke up had nothing to do with the fact she occasionally slept with another guy. It hurt a little, but in the overall scheme of our relationship, I liked her so much that we just kept on dating, kept on being amazing friends. I recommend an amazing book called "The ethical slut"... it's all about swinging and polyamourous love in the 21st century. Why control people? Thats my question to you. Let people be free.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (1 April 2009):
 It only could work if niether of you is in love with the other. I truly believe if you really love someone then you cant be ok with them being with someone else. And it's not about being in control. It's about respect for your lover and there feelings. Even if it starts out both agreeing to it, it usually ends the relationship. Bad idea.
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