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Is she trying to hurt me because she hurts?

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Question - (5 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Do you think that if you were dating someone 5 years and you broke up with them and you claimed that you really loved the other person you were with very much.....do you think that it's really truly possible to;

Meet someone on a cell phone through the internet on a text messaging service....text them for two month.....meet them only 3 weeks ago from today in person and say that you have moved on, over it, and happy with this new girl. Plus say that you love them already and are going to marry her soon and move her in with you? This meaning that you could get over your ex you supposedly loved even though you say you don't now in just knowing someone personally for 3 weeks????

Also she has been really nasty lately to me when she texts or talk and at first she wanted to be friends and I kept asking her questions for closure and she rubs it in my face about her new gf (sending me pics of them kissing and her new ring) Do u think she is tryin to hurt me because she is hurting inside?

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (5 November 2007):

peaches83 agony auntI think in a way yes, she obvisiouly wants you to see that she has moved on but by sending you pics like that it is saying that she in a small amount still has feelings for you and is just checking by doing this and seeing your reaction.

If you are truly seperated from this girl and wish to move on then you need to cut all ties with her.

You sound as if you have only been sepeerated for a short amount of time and by getting into another relationship so soon it could quiet easily be a rebound. They do not generally work.

Tell her you wish her not to send and say such things and move on.

Good luck

Peaches

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