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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is one girl I know her from Facebook at that time I was in my country we kept texting and everything was fine her bf just left her from few months ago and went to U.K. At the beginning she told me she is not ready yet I told her I won’t force let’s be friend and time will decide our situation, she said ok we have been dating for few times and we hold hands together while ice skating. Suddenly, she told me it won’t workout between us no need to wait for me. Her best friend told me she doesn’t want to meet me she scared to get attached to me and I will leave like what her bf did. Later on we hangout again and we use to have lunch together most of the time and she told me to stop texting her even though I didn’t text her that much and I got blocked after a week or two, she unblocked me and told I am sorry for what I said and bye I told her no need for bye it was in the past and she ask me what I am up to today and kept sharing with her working day and asked me to text her again on Whatsapp. I do really like her but I don’t know what should I do, should I text her or no need and should I still keeping trying on her without being greedy?
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reader, femmenoir  +, writes (7 November 2017):
 This young lady is still dealing with her ex and still coming to terms with her break up, not to mention the emotional part of that past.
She'd only be using you on the "rebounds" and as a "sounding board".
She's feeling quite vulnerable, scared and isn't sure of what she wants at present.
You are much better off without her in your life.
When you meet the right young lady, you'll know and things will flow effortlessly as they should in a healthy and stable relationship.
This girl, she's playing games of uncertainty with you, because she's obviously scared to be attached to you, because she's afraid you'll leave her as her ex did.
She doesn't sound ready for a new relationship, so i wouldn't advise you to waste your time with her.
Let go of this young lady and wait for the right person to enter your life.
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reader, PJ Roy  +, writes (4 November 2017):
I agree with N91.You should not be allowing this to be done to you. She's slowly transferring whatever burdens her ego about her boyfriend's leaving onto you.I can't help feeling that she'll dump you when she's 'functional' again, and has no use for you.
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reader, N91  +, writes (4 November 2017):
 Dude,
It's not working. This isn't how a healthy, functional relationship begins. She has told you she's not ready, she told you to stop texting, she blocked you. These are all red flags and signs that it's not meant to be.
Stop wasting your time, believe me you'll meet someone where none of this happens and everything is natural and works out like it should, this is not the one.
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