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anonymous
writes:I've got this friend. I'm 21, and she's in her early 30's. We're quite close but not in a 'talk to her every day capacity'. But, I know I can trust her to go talk to her if I'm trying to deal with something. I met her about 5 years ago, and we instantly hit it off, but we became alot closer about 2 years ago. I'd call round to hers sometimes, and we'd chat on the phone too.I am insanely in love with her, and that's why I'm here... I want to tell her so badly how I feel for her, but I'm so afraid to. I don't want to jeopardise our friendship by telling her. I'm not sure if she already knows how I feel. I think she has to know by now, I feel I make it so obvious, but maybe she just thinks I'm a friendly, outgoing kinda girl!!Sometimes I feel that she might feel something for me too. I'm not sure though. She'll say things that imply that she's possibly playing with my head a little, and those cheeky smiles that she gives me!! When she talks to me she'll stare into my eyes. Sometimes I look away because it feels that we're gazing at each other for hours, and I know I shouldn't, because it's not exactly sending the right signals to her!I love her and I want to be brave enough to find out where I stand, because I've felt like this for long enough. But how do I find out?? Do I have to come straight out with it??Guys, if anyone could help me out I'd really appreciate it... Bottom line is that I don't want to lose a great mate, but then again I guess it's up to her to be mature enough to handle it gently. But, I'd hate to see her get mad with me and throw me out - it would kill me...SO WHAT DO I DO?????Thank you all xxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, michele21  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 well im in the exact same position im with a female now but i have a older friend in her 30's im only 21 but we are great friends and really understand each other we have a lot in common and i can talk to her about anything vise versa the same with her so i found myself falling for her badly and i just came out and told her exactly how i felt she said she could already tell a bit but since we are both going through some things lets remain friends and see whats going to happen in the future she is an adult just tell her straight out how you feel im sure you have been friends too long to not be able to open up to her i don't think she will be mad if anything she will be flattered
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): I have a few things to tell you.
* I am straight.I have lots of girls as friends.I love them of course.If they are going through a low they pick up the phone and call me at any time.I am the 4am friend.But I am not in love with them.Get what I mean
* When I talk to a person guy or girl I look at their eyes.It says that am honest.I don't stare at them.But I don't look at my nails or at the walls behind.Goes to say that I don't have anything to hide from anyone.
* I smile a lot at my friends as I am happy being with them.If we are discussing naughty things as girls often do(let me assure you on this) I have a cheeky grin and a twinkle in my eye.I can't frown or rather I won't frown as I am a happy person regardless of whatever situation am in.
Now read your question again and decide.If wishes were gold coins we would all be millionaires.I would dearly like to know if she dates guys or girls?since you know her for sometime I am hoping you will know the answer to this question
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