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writes:theres a girl who said she liked me but wanted to wait till her head was in the right place for us to have a relationship, shes not talked about getting to gether and she keeps going to see other boys who like her. im pritty sure (her freinds told me) that she is with some one now. what should i do i feel let down and upset.she also said might want to go out with me but not sure what she wants, but, if thats true why is going out with someone shes only known 2 days?is she just keeping me as a back up in case she gets finished? and what should i do?any help would be nice :) thx in advance Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 February 2010):
You are well and truly second best here my friend. Best thing to do is move on and not give her another chance EVER.
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reader, Blod +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Yeah, it sounds like you're her back up. Try to forget about it. Do your own thing and let her flirt and be with whoever. Things will settle in the end, one way or the other. She'll learn and mature. Let it go for a bit and concentrate on yourself.
If you show that you're happy to live your own life without her, then she may reconsider things and think more seriously about your relationship. Sounds like she's in control of things at the minute and it's not fair for you to be her back up.
Things will work out.
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