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writes:I don't know what to do and it has me confused my gf for a few months used to want to talk all the time and now i cant even get hold of her ever. She just went from hot to cold almost over night, i feel like she is ignoring me because as first she had an excuse and now that excuse really isn't acceptable due to this going on for nearly 3 weeks.I thought that maybe she was hanging out with friends out of state at first but now she was on myspace today and never answered my message or anything. I have been worried sick about what the heck is going on with her and it is driving me mad, what would make her do this, is she just done with me and is thinking that hey lets ignore him till he gos away? What can i do to just get this off my mind?
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (15 September 2009):
 This is what they call the "love fade". That's when someone that you love simply chooses to fade from your life. Its very mean and its also uncouth.
From what you've said it sounds like she's done with you. Maybe you should just move on and ignore her from now on.
If she refuses to talk to you, or communicate with you then it means basically that she's decided to walk away.
The only thing I can do is tell you that if she's going to ignore you like this, she's immature and incapable of being kind to anyone. Which means she's cruel. Eventually word gets around about people like this. Just make sure it doesn't get back to you.
I'd say you're lucky here. Take it as a sign to stay away from her and find someone that'll be kind enough to let you know if she doesn't want you in her life anymore.
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