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*rGoggles
writes:I have more problems that's making me feel like my Gf wants to split up with me, one second when she's happy when im with her and her friends are around but when its just me and her she looks really depressed , also when i say i love her before i go home she used to say it back but now she just says Bye really snappy - like and saying i love you is the only way to show that i love her because she dont like holding hands or kissing. just tell me straight guys cos if i talk to her about it im scared that i will get the answer that i dont want to hear.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (20 March 2010):
 I hope your heart heals soon and you go on to love again xxx
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reader, MrGoggles +, writes (20 March 2010):
MrGoggles is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you but it turns out that my now ex-gf never loved me or so she says but thanks for the advise and i now feel no emotions because of it . but thanks anyway we are kind of still being friends so i will still talk to her
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (18 March 2010):
It sounds likeshe wants to cool off. Relationships when your younger create a lot of pressure and girls are sensitive to this.
Sorry to say but it may not go your way, but to salvage things you could ask her if she would just like to stay friends.
I know thats going to be a bit painful but, you cant force her to say she loves you if she doesnt. By pulling back a little and just being a friend, you get to show your caring and understanding side and girls find that stuff adorable.
Better to just chill it out and save the friendship, she will respect you more in the long run.
xxx Aunty Em xxx
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