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writes:If my girl friend said to me that we are not breaking up but she ask for time apart is she breaking up with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, bitch  +, writes (30 October 2009):
keep up the facade you are showing her by continueing to say everything is great and DO NOT TEXT anything else other thant short simple answers. Short simple happy answers are all you should give her. Don't text her first. If she wants to break up, then let her see what it is like to not have your full attention and time.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthis is a up date....I had a text yesterday from my girlfriend asking hows everything and that shes back at work...So I sent one back saying everything is great...If she wants to break up with me then why is she sending me text mesages...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 October 2009):
Time apart means she needs to do a lot of thinking, and that she's not happy. Which means that it is likely you'll lose her. That's not your fault, it's just that you both need to be with the right person. It doesn't mena you will lose her. But you do need to respect her wishes and not contact her. If, after say a month, she has said nothing, call her and ask her if she wants it to continue. If she still can't give you an answer, then it's time to move on. Be strong for yoursself and don't want around ever for someone who won't come back, when you can find someone else who will commit. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2009): Yes. Plain and simple. Sorry.
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reader, bitch +, writes (27 October 2009):
I am sorry you are in this position. If she is asking for time alone she must need this space for whatever reason. The best thing you can do for yourself is to give her the space and DONT call her or text her or anything. If she sees that you are OK without her, it might make her want you back sooner. You need to at least pretend that it doesn't bother you. I know how hard this is to do. I know you are upset, but you are also stronger than you realize and you can do this..... You can!
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