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writes:i reallllllly like a guy that is a known flirt. i dont want to be in a relationship with him cuz he is a known cheater. but at nights i still dream about him and i still check his acebook statuses and stuff. is this healthy will this help me get over him? there is no one nd nuthin else for mi to focus on right now in life. i am out of school and jobless.. now i know its not healthy wat i am doing but it makes me feel better like there is some hope. how do i get over this? and feel better? is this normal?
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 This is totally normal. For example, there's a guy I really should not like, he's strung me along for over a year, got a girlfriend, forgot about me, broke up with her and now that he talks to me again, I'm all smitten.I know from my own experience that the only way I can get completely over him but out of all the very many guys I know, I can't find anyone... so I'm just waiting.Try to meet some new guys to get your mind off this one.xx
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reader, BlueBag  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 Its very normal to have a crush on someone and in my experience, it seems to intensify when you know you can't have them. However, the things that you are doing are not helping you get over him at all. You need to try and forget about him, not be checking up on him every five minutes.You say you don't have anything else to focus yourself on, so why don't you find something? Have a look for a job, start up a hobby, go out with friends. There's plenty you could be doing to occupy yourself.
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