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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Basically when we broke up for summer, i was really really unsettled and upset about leaving school for 7 weeks. I hate it at home but i love school where im around loving people who care about my emotions. I have my teacher, who i open up to and tell her absolutly everything and she always helps me out. She hugs me all the time but says its inapproprate if anyone else tries. I wont talk to anyone else about my feelings but her and because my mum forgot to pick me up at half day, she sat and talked to me for hours and then she hugged and said that i could use the school website thingy to email her if i wanted to talk. She sais she was going on holiday for a week, so she couldnt answer then but she didnt know when that would be. I have been emailing her loads over the past 3 weeks but no reply. Shes 23 and soo kind so i dont think shes doing it deliberatly but she cant be on holiday that long. Why is she ignoring me? Does she hate me for something?? Please help!!
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (4 August 2011):
She may not want to log on for a while since it's the summer, or she may have forgotten that she said you could contact her. Even though she's your teacher and an influential person, you shouldn't be this stressed over her. She's an adult and has her own life, so don't be mad if she doesn't get back to you right away. She taught you and that's all she had to do. Don't keep expecting her to comfort you all the time. She's an adult and she's taught you and let you vent to her. So give her a break and let her come around when she decides. And try to find some other people that allow you to vent when your teacher's not around.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011): And plus the website isnt just for at school you can use it anytime to email teachers im just not sure if thats allowed in the summer, although even if your not its possible to do.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011): I just dont get why shes not emailing me back after she promised to check every day
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male
reader, Jmtmj +, writes (4 August 2011):
Its a school website thingy... isn't it holidays now?
Teachers aren't allowed to give out personal contact details where I'm from, but can be contacted through school website thingies so that it can be monitored to prevent any funny business.
Why are you stressing out over this? Whats the problem?
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