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writes:Hey guys,Well I have been with my bf for nearly 2 years. I really love him, but when we have sex it's always the same, same positions, same speed, same everything, nothing ever changes, and I'm bored. The thing is that we struggle with different positions because we just find it hard to position ourselves right. Has anyone got any good tips to make it more pleasurable and less boring??xx Reply to this Question
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (4 August 2011):
 I think that a lot of people have some idealized romantic way of thinking that sex should always be perfect, but reality is that awkward things happen. Lube spills, queefs burst out, you get a pubic hair in your mouth and gag a little and have to fish it out mid-BJ...that's life. Learn to accept and laugh about it in a mature and accepting fashion. Learn to accommodate your partner and communicate your wants in sex. Talking about sex honestly and not putting too much pressure on the sex being always "perfect" will help it not be boring.
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reader, green eyed mulatto +, writes (4 August 2011):
 Well first of all you both should be comfortable with each other enough to know what works for the both of you.Second this happens to a lot of people becoming bored with their sex life, and there are ways to spice it up: like roll playing, sex toys, or being more romantic towards each other and building up to the actual act of love making!
Try talking to each other more to find out which one of these you can try first and see what happens and don't over do any positions that you are not being able handle good luck!
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reader, weebooger +, writes (4 August 2011):
 Maybe you could try some role playing, or add toys to the mix. it could spice things up a bit. If your both comftorable with it. You could also try watching porn together and extended amounts of foreplay. Sometimes the more turned on u are the better sex can be.
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