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writes: My husband has a good friend for about 10 years. His friend lives far away but it seems his friend has a lot of interest in knowing more about me. He has called several times to talk with me knowing my husband wasn't home, everytime he calls and I answer the phone he always make conversation. Many times when he talks to my husband on the phone he asks many things about me and it's not just" how is she doing?" Last year I travel to another country and I stayed 2 months, he asked my husband if I cried when we said good bye. He is always super nice, friendly with me, many times I can sense a different tone on his voice when we talk on the phone. Once we stayed 3 months without talking and he called in a very unsual time, then I answered the phone, I was really quick and said good bye but he kept talking. So what do u think? Do think he may like me or is it normal for him to have all this interest in me? Once my husband told me he can tell his friend has a genuine interest in getting to know his friend's wife better. My husband is very, very, navy, very innocent, I think other guys in my husband's place would get suspicious...what do u guys think? Like, he is also married, I never see my husband asking anything about his wife, once I even told my husband" he asks so may things about me and you don't even ask how his wife doing?" This guy has a great personality, he is very outgoing and talkative, so I wonder if that's just his way of being or if there's something more...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): you should tell your husband but just as one as them everyday things like "i seen sharon today" but say "your freind called today" when he says what did he say say o he wanted to talk to me for some strange reason then keep on doing this your husband will get the jist. MAKE SURE you that after the first time of doing it make it sound like its annoying you as he might think your having an affair. xxx
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reader, eddie  +, writes (3 June 2006):
 If he is truly a friend, then it is normal to be interested in how you are. If he seems to call while your husband is away, that seems a little odd. My wife and I have friends that would call eachother and I would think nothing of it. It depends on the situation. Maybe you want to hear the things you're hearing. Does this man's wife know he's calling. The next time he calls, ask him many things about his wife. IF he is as nice and talkative as you claim, he should have something to say. Once he stops talking about his wife, start talking about your husband, saying nice things about him etc.
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