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writes:is my husband still talking to other women on the internet?heres the deal atleast once a year lately i find that my husband has been having internet cheating opens up new email account to through me off. when he does this he lies to me says its somebody elses he tells me he loves me and wants us to stay together but how can i be so sure thats what he wants especially with all the lies he tells me. we argue quite a lot we have been married almost 9 years have a 17 month old son and twin girls on the way and it just seems like he wants me to be the bad guy and kick him out cause hes unhappy
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reader, kimbymoo +, writes (17 July 2009):
kimbymoo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your support it helps to get someone e
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Coming from a guy I don`t know how this sounds but had I been pregnant I would have given him another chance as well. But it seams he has abused that chance. Regardless if you can prove the adultery before you give him the boot you can take him for all he`s worth in divorce court. And if you can`t prove it there might still be something left to salvage. But he has already left you once for this and now the cycle is going again.If you dig hard enough you`ll find the proof you need. Good Luck.
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reader, kimbymoo +, writes (17 July 2009):
kimbymoo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust so all know four years ago is really when all this starting happening he had phone/=nternet cheating might have actually met up with this woman seeing as she was only in the next town over the following year he wanted to divorce but about a month later after being apart he wanted to come back after i found out i was pregnant with our first child after six years of trying. well i told myself that it probably wasnt a good idea but needed to give my marriage another try. he also has a porn addiction. couple times caught him looking at personal adds and wasnt sure if they went beyond looking one was on the night of our anniversary. yet another went buy same stuff happening all over again. thought bout kicking him out then but kept him in my life as we ran into some hardships. starting to see the pattern and not being ablwe to trust him once again hes at it again i know i need to stay atleast until the new year as i am a stay at home mom and havent worked for quit some time and twins are due in a couple of weeks and it happens that he does this at the same time every year im really fed up
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (16 July 2009):
Its good to know things for sure before jumping the gun.Him opening new accounts and blatantly lying to you does raise a lot of red flags and suspicion,but unfortunately proves nothing.Don`t throw him out with out prof.That way if you separate you will have a much better hand to play.Plus the situation might not be as bad as you may think.Try to look into it more.Maybe hire outside help?I have thought about trying this (http://www.webwatchernow.com/Monitoring-Software/Freetrial/FAQs.html?sid=114#install) don`t really know if it`s good or not.I hope the situation isn`t as bad as you think.I hate the idea of married couples or couples with kids separating,but living with someone whom you can`t trust is not living a happy life.
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