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Fallen in love with my best friend, do I risk the friendship, if pursue her as more than a friend?

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Question - (10 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2008)
A male South Africa age 30-35, *AZER writes:

i am currently in grd 10 i have a best friend who's a girl,she has been my friend for 3 yrs,she has bin sitting with me in every class,i have had a crush on her at the 8th grd but it all passed,i fel in love with her along de way.weneva she looks nd smiles at me i blush.i dnt knw wat to do should i risk my friendship to try to go to the next level?plzzzz ppl help it rippin me apart

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A male reader, RAZER South Africa +, writes (11 July 2008):

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thanx guys,but de other thing i am a shy guy since as long as i can remember,but i have a speacial skill,humour,cant i use dat to my advantage?(i really appriciate de advice)

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (10 July 2008):

Umm it could work out but the truth is that if it doesn't there isn't a high chance of the friendship working out after. My advice is to follow your heart or you might just always be wondering what could have happened.

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A female reader, Addie United States +, writes (10 July 2008):

Addie agony auntMy best freind, who i was close to threw a hard time in my life, told me he was in love with me, and i was shocked, and a little scared. Like someone esle said test the waters, don't just jump out and say it, take it slow, and see how she reacts. Best of luck love.

-Addie.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008):

Without running the risk of ruining the friendhip; ask her to go to the movies with you; maybe a coffe afterwards; test the waters; see how she responds and make small moves; maybe try hold her hand; if she pulls away; well then it is a sign, to stop; if she does not, try a little more; test the water step by step; that way you will soon and safely, know if you can risk it to another level; without causing any embarrasment to either of you;

Hope this helps.

Best of luck.

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (10 July 2008):

StudentOfLife agony auntRelationships often have an end to them. Friendship last forever.

The decision is yours to take.

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