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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend has been together a year and my sis thinks hes obsessed with me because hes weird...hes always telling me im his and trying to force me to say im your all tha time..and he tryed to fight my best guy friend for putting a pick of me with angel wings on his page.. he check my myspace page for comments all the time he practically know my comments and friends display names by heart and last night he got furious when i hung up with him to talk to my girl best friend who was crying...an sometimes he play hits me and it hurt and when i tell him stop he wont.. hes gave me bruises on my legs before..he says he did it because i should wear shorts so short..and sometimes he yanks me when i try to walk away from him he says its play but wat do you think
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): thank you all for your input...i think ive been mentally affected and it will be hard to leave him and i hear it might take a while for me to leave an abuser for good but im am ready to take the first step..hopefully hell let me break up with him
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 He is mentally and physically abusing you . You need to put your foot down and stand up to him over this kind of behaviours.
If he does not respect you and will not change, you will have to kick him to the kerb.
If you stay , it will graduate to heavier stuff. In play , he is that rough and if he were to get angry , I think the sky would fall down on you .
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 May 2010):
Walk away now, before you end up with a bruise on your face. He's clearly disturbed and it won't be long until he really starts to hit you. He has no right to control your or your friends, and by staying with him you are putting yourself in a lot of danger. Leave him now. He won't change, so end it now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): Hes wrong to be in your business so much. Wrong to hit you and wrong to throw a fit because you needed to talk to a friend that was upset. I would be most concerned about him physically hurting you. That wont stop. He will just get worse. Listen to your sister as she sees things first hand while we can only form an opinion based on what you say but he sounds all wrong to me. Id assert myself if i were you and insist the physical stuff stops or dump him fast. Boys and men should never hit girls even in "play" as he likes to call it. Hes not nice sweety.
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