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Is masturbation good to help you last longer?

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Question - (7 June 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is masturbation good to help you last longer?

If so what kinda technique while masturbating would help me last longer which my girlfriend?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008):

I agree, you may not be able to get or stay hard during sex if you masterbate too much, especially if you do it just before sex.

Not lasting long is predomantly psychological, you need to take it nice and easy and feel comfortable with the girl you are with. If you are with a girl within a loving and stable relationship she should be able to understand the situatin and work with you so that you can better control yourself. Men can certainly learn just before their "point of no return" is and once you do, you will find things much easier!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008):

What the other aunts said about control is right, training yourself etc, but masturbating too often can affect your sex life in a negative way, not being able to stay hard during sex for example. So yeah, training yourself could be a good idea but not too often!!

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (7 June 2008):

Danielepew agony auntI don't think so. Masturbation is not like real sex. If you want to learn about self-control when you're with a woman, be with a woman.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntyeah its all about self control wen you feel your close stop. keep doing this and it will hopefully resist you too train yourself from letting go to early. aphex

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2008):

It could be. (trying to think of 'nicer' words to use here lol) When you feel are about to come, stop yourself. With practice, this should help you 'train' yourself to have more self-control and hopefully last longer in the bedroom.

Good luck

xxx

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