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writes:Hi guys any insight here, I asked my boyfriend why he thinks my friend gets so much attention from guys on our nights out compared to my other friend. And was a pretty confusing answer to what i expected... Both girls are absolutely model gorgeous! The first girl, the one who gets attention always wears jeans and a nice top, or a top with a high waisted skirt and black tights. She never has her legs on show (just skin without tights). And the other girl who doesn't get as much, always wears shorts or a high waisted skirt and no tights! She doesn't dress slutty, or look like she wants attention, but guys compliment and lean to the other girl more. So i asked my boyfriend why this is, because they're both stunning and dress really nice. And he said that course guys love a woman legs, but depending on the girl who is wearing the tights, they can sometimes look sexier than a girl with her legs on show. Which is why guys might talk to her more because she seems more conservative and hard to get?I don't want to sound naive or judgemental, but is that true? Do guys really find that a girl in tights can look more sexy than a girl who has her bare legs on shows? And that they find her as more of hard to get and that.... Guys? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011): Yes, basically when we see a girl that's dressed a little conservatively we see mystery and excitement. We want to know what she has under those clothes.
As for what kc-100 said I have to say I love tights. Peeling them off is a lot of fun. Not every moment of passion has to be fast and furious, you can have a lot of fun rolling down tights and slowly revealing the legs underneath.
Girls that have everything on display are nice to look at but we've seen it all in that case. It;s like a person telling you what they're getting you for xmas, you look forward to getting it still but there's no surprize, no mystery and less excitement. A girl who leaves stuff to the imagination is like an awesome present, and trust me you can feel like a kid at xmas when a girl like that lets you 'unwrap' her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011): I could identify with that. Guys are attracted to girls that leave something to the imagination. Once they have imagined it,however,they then wanna find out how close what they imagined is to the real thing!
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (18 July 2011):
 I've never heard of anything like this! Most guys I know and all the men I have dated really dont like tights, they think they're frumpy and hard to get off if you had a moment of passion!
There is a lot of truth in covering up a bit and not having everything on display - men like to see the shape of a woman but it is not attractive to have it all on show (like a tiny skirt, or hotpants, or your boobs out...or even worse - both!). I often get more attention when I have a conservative dress on that hugs my shape but covers my boobs, maybe has a short sleeve and goes down to my knees.
Too much skin isnt sexy and men do like to play the old hard to get game, but tights? Thats a new one to me! Maybe your boyfriend just has a thing for tights?! I wouldnt worry about that too much, but the whole being more conservative thing can be true for a lot of men.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (18 July 2011):
 People get interested because they are curious. In personality or sexual attraction, sparking curiosity will usually provoke some sort of interest.
I hope that helps.
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