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26-29,
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writes:Is it wrong to be sexually involved with your best friend? Okay so my friend came over(he's a guy) and we were just watching t.v then we started fighting over the remote because I didn't want to watch a show. Somehow from that it led to him fingering me and dry humping me. And the worst part is.... He has a girlfriend. I don't think I want to tell her though. All my close friends are saying I should because she has a right to know. I'm not entirely sure. Should I tell her? Also he's a virgin and I'm not. Ove only had sex once before and it was the biggest mistake of my life. Later as he was leaving he said there was nothing he could do and that it wad a stupid mistake and he didn't know why he did it and said we should forget it. If it was a mistake why did he continue? And yes I like him in a romantic way. I'm confused. I feel like that if it was to happen again then I wouldn't have control and that I'd just end up running back to him. Please help me.
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reader, SweetSmoochy  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 First, it's debatable whether it is your place or not. You guys are very young, so, while relationships are very rarely permanent at all, it's still a serious thing when cheating is involved. I'm gonna go ahead and say it isn't your job to tell her what happened, it's his. Leave it at that and save yourself some drama.
I would also advise you tell him how you feel. Do NOT allow yourself to be treated like this guy's booty call. It doesn't matter how much you like a guy, if he's not willing to put the time and love in to a relationship with you, he isn't worth giving any time, love, or sexual stuff to.
Best of luck darlin. I know how you feel, and trust me, it gets less confusing and easier to deal with.
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