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writes:I come from a crazy past. I was an addict, i slept around and i just partied my ass off! Then just over a year ago i met a boy who helped me change into a much better perosn. I love him so much... I'd do anything for him. He's my best friend. But he always thinks I'm gonna or have cheated on him. Its just not fair, I've never been so monogomous in my life!!! he checks my phone, he accuses me all the time, twists my words...its not fair. He calls me names and threatens our relationship because of the stupid nonsense that goes on in his head. How do i change this? i mean, im trying to change certian things about me ...not just for him but for me....how do i get him to do the same? we usually have so much fun together and just love each other so much....but latly its getting worse. He calls me drunk and starts on his rampage of how i cheat on him bla bla bla. I cant take it, I'm hurting becuase the person i love doesnt trust me. I really need help, any other options besides leaving him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help, i guess im going to have to do a little evaulating here
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reader, Angel dust  +, writes (30 October 2008):
 Im glad you got over the addiction and starting a new life. Everything happens for a reason and i think the reason is that you started to learn from mistakes and grow. you re learning to trust yourself and resepect yourself, so dont let anyone dis respect you by calling you names or telling you things coz of your past - you should be proud of the woman ur are today! A character can never be changed no matter the endless discussions u have. So its either you both accept each other's character and pasts or better following different pasts before one of you husrts the other person. If you want to save the relationship explain to him and reassure him how special he is to you. Never take it forgranted that he knows how you feel. good luck! :)
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